752012

Shopping

Shopping is a big hobby of almost every girl, sure there are exceptions. But if you don't like shopping you can do it still. One of my friends hated it, when we went once to the city and they finally found it really nice. There are a few tips if you want to enjoy shopping:
 Go with a friend or someone with who you have never been to the city.
 Or go once only, this time for yourself is very fine, especially if you have a lot on your mind.
 Do not think negative (you should never do of course). Negative thoughts have you no sense of self already.
 Go before you go to the city goes to the film or go out to eat, then you are (often) already in a good mood and shopping is definitely better.
 Do you always have a list for shopping? Do this once then not give you much more freedom. Or do it just that if you never do.
 Do you go shopping is not fun because you do not know what yours is? try to discover your own style.
 Do you like for an example films. Then go shopping and at the end of the day you can reward yourself with that DVD for so long that you already like. Then you have something to look forward to.
 Do you hate shopping in the real city? Take a look at online shops. There is often much more to find as in the city and you can do anytime.

If you still don't like to shop than you can find another option... :-)

 

Love,

Me

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552012

Your Style isn't mine.

What is style? You're style is your style. It is a personal thing. You can't share it. It's kind of your passport for your work, school, etc. Style is a very big concept, because everyone's style is different. There are many people who like the same things but they certainly are not the same style because there is always somewhere in the world one thing will be that one will like it but the other doesn't.Many people haven't their own style and just buy what others wear, so is created fashion. What you can do is combine your style with fashion. For example, the harem pants are hot, then you can still adapt to your style because there are thousands of variations of almost everything. There's nothing like the same style. For every pair of pants that is made with the same pattern is not the same, it is perhaps made by someone else or the substance is slightly shorter or even longer. Something can never be the same, never!
To find out what your style is you should just buy what you like and you will naturally discover what it is for you and what not. A few things that may help you with your own style, so only buy something if you like it, do not let others influence ga as often as possible to the mirror and assess as many of your clothes and ask yourself this questions:
1. Is it suits you?
2. It lets you figure out well?
3. Do you like it yourself?
4. Would you really wear?
5. You can combine with other garments in your closet?

Do not be influenced by others, you can watch but not imitate.

My own rules, NOTE: you don't need to do this but this are my own suggestions:

1. Wear a garment 2 days, and wear it after a while so it looks like you have never have had. It then looks like you have something new.
2. Combine your garments always something else that gives a fresh look.

3. Do you have something similar to someone other than the garment I wear when I want of course but if the other person has to pay me that I have at least a week later so that other people do not know that they also had.

4. Heels make any outfit more feminine + they make your legs a lot longer.
5. Combine something unexpected outfits that make you a real style icon.
6. You need absolutely no clothes at expensive shops to buy and certainly not to brag about because then you put yourself really embarrassed. Someone asked me recently: "where you buy your clothes?" And I reply: "H & M" and it is. I'm not going to expensive stores because usually you can find a kind of similar item. So I had once a white waistcoat with gold buttons and a black border and someone called it very Chanel, while that was just from H & M.

7. Help others to find their style.
8. Also look in stores where you would go not so fast, you often find there is still something nice.
9. Only buy something if you are sure you need it (I understand that this does not always work but if you limit it you bad buys). If it fits you ask yourself the questions I have already mentioned.

10. Get your own style!

Love,

Me

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2812012

Find yourself and start with yourself

My first psychological post about finding yourself

As a teenager you're looking at yourself, you try everything from clothing to drugs. but finding yourself has nothing to do with drugs or with clothes only to find yourself you'll have to start from within.
You need to find yourself a few things:

1.      discover what you like and what not, give or for any thing you like a comprehensive view, and not just, "because I like it"

2.      think how you would look like if you saw the inside, now look in the mirror. that same person or at least almost the same then you are right, you seem from the outside not inside your remember what you can do to change your exterior look like yourself.

3.      write in a journal on what you did that day and what it took. write clearly your opinion on. You will soon discover things you like.

4.      4. you'll soon moody or angry around you look at yourself first, making you feel worse and you can change this?

5.       Make sure you do as many things that you like. Of course you should always do something you do not like, but then do something you get happy.

6.      Think (not) only to yourself, try a balance between yourself and your surroundings. for example your friends want to do something you don’t like, be honest and say you'd rather not do, but do not be disappointed if they once say no to an action from you.

7.      Believe in yourself -no explanation-

I think I am now pretty whittling away at, but hopefully you understand me and are you going to find yourself.

because I can understand that some people don't find this topic interesting, I will not post many times about psychology. if you find it interesting please reply when many people do reply I will post more on this topic.

Love,

Me

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